Week 4 Thursday

Letting It All Hang Out

Today’s scripture selection: Job 7-8

Key verses: Job 7:11

     To say Job was frustrated is the definition of understatement.  He was crushed, defeated, angry, hurt, isolated, and just plain exhausted.  And his so-called friends, sent to “comfort” him only offered, at best, platitudes – and at worst, condemnation.  No wonder he felt so alone.

     But there is something beautiful for us to notice – even in the middle of all this seeming hopelessness.  It is that Job shared it openly.  He didn’t hold anything back; to use an old expression, he let it “all hang out.”

     Was there an immediate answer from God – either one of comfort or correction?  No.  Was there sudden clarity – a realization of why Job was suffering as he was?  Nope.  The silence must have been deafening.

     But I think it is helpful for us to see that the scriptures don’t clean the story up; editing out the anguish this child of God suffered, leaving us with some simple lesson on God’s justice.  Instead, it allows us to simply sit with Job in his pain and confusion.

     Those around Job were uncomfortable with this honest expression of frustration.  They wanted to tie everything up into a neat little package then tell Job to quit his complaining and get on with life.  Sometimes people react to us in the same way.

     But we should remember that it is alright, that God is “big enough” to let us put everything out on the table before Him.  While some will warn us to “hush up” and get on with life – our God allows honest expression of what is in our heart.

     So let it all hang out.  Take God not only your adoration and praise – but your frustration and anger and hurt as well.  God can handle it.  You won’t be answered with a crashing thunderbolt, but with a listening presence.

     And while we you are at it – why not offer that kind of listening presence to someone else?  It won’t answer all the questions – yours or theirs.  But once everything is on the table, in time – God will show up.  He always does.  Not in divine retribution – but divine grace.  And you will be glad you held nothing back.

 

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, thank you that you allow me to cry out, as Jesus once did, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”  And thank you for not really forsaking me – ever.  AMEN.

 

 

 

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By Paul Simrell

The Reverend Paul W. Simrell has served for over thirty years in a variety of congregational and institutional settings. He is a recognized minister with standing in the Virginia region of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in the United States and Canada and is nationally endorsed by the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) for specialized ministry in both pastoral counseling and chaplaincy. Ordained in 1982, he has served congregations in Kentucky, Texas, Florida, and Virginia. He currently serves as the pastor of Elpis Christian Church, a small, historic congregation located just a few miles west of Richmond, Virginia. Elpis is the Greek word meaning “expectant hope.” He also serves on the associate clinical staff of the Virginia Institute of Pastoral Care, Richmond, Virginia, both as a pastoral counselor and a ministerial assessment specialist, specializing in executive, clergy and relationship coaching. He is a graduate of the University of Florida and Lexington Theological Seminary and has done advanced clinical training in chaplaincy and pastoral counseling at the University of Kentucky Medical Center in Lexington, Kentucky, Children’s Medical Center and Parkland Hospital in Dallas, Texas and the Virginia Institute of Pastoral Care in Richmond, Virginia. He is a Certified Pastoral Counselor, an ACPE Practitioner, and a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. He is a Certified Facilitator of the Prepare-Enrich relationship assessment and skills-building program and served as a volunteer chaplain for over twenty years with the CJW Medical Center campuses in Richmond, Virginia. His avocational interests include playing the piano and drawing. He is very happily married to his wife Elizabeth Yeamans Simrell, a free-lance writer, who is also a Certified Facilitator for the Prepare-Enrich program. Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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