Week 12 Tuesday

Learning the Hard Way

Today’s scripture selection: First Samuel 6-10

Key verse: First Samuel 8:7

“And the LORD told him: “Listen to all that the people are saying to you; it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected me as their king.”

 

     There came a time, after many turbulent years, led by many different leaders of varying skills, that the people of Israel wanted a king.  At least, that’s what they thought they wanted.

     And so began an even longer, equally turbulent period, because kings are only human – with all the strengths, and weaknesses, that come with being human.

     In short, God gave them what they asked for, even though it wasn’t best for them.

     Sometimes that happens in our lives too.

     We are so sure of what we want – and what we think we need.  So, like a loving parent that allows his or her child to learn through costly mistakes – God lets it happen.

     It can be a painful way to learn.  But, it’s usually very effective.  And eventually, we come to our senses and ask God for help again.

     As the Lord’s Prayer puts it: “not my will, but thine, be done.”

     Some of the best lessons I have learned in life, I have learned through the mistakes I have made.  Some of those mistakes have been very costly.  The lessons I have learned that way have been invaluable.  It’s just too bad I had to go through that painful process to learn what God had been trying to teach me all along.

     Why not take some time today to reflect on your own life “lessons”?

     Are there some you have learned the “hard” way?  Are there some problems you might avoid by turning the reins back over to God?  Be careful what you ask for – you might just get it.

     God knows best – why not talk to Him about it instead?

 

Prayer: Lord, forgive my desire to sometimes choose the wrong way for myself.  And show me a better way.  AMEN. 

 

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By Paul Simrell

The Reverend Paul W. Simrell has served for over thirty years in a variety of congregational and institutional settings. He is a recognized minister with standing in the Virginia region of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in the United States and Canada and is nationally endorsed by the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) for specialized ministry in both pastoral counseling and chaplaincy. Ordained in 1982, he has served congregations in Kentucky, Texas, Florida, and Virginia. He currently serves as the pastor of Elpis Christian Church, a small, historic congregation located just a few miles west of Richmond, Virginia. Elpis is the Greek word meaning “expectant hope.” He also serves on the associate clinical staff of the Virginia Institute of Pastoral Care, Richmond, Virginia, both as a pastoral counselor and a ministerial assessment specialist, specializing in executive, clergy and relationship coaching. He is a graduate of the University of Florida and Lexington Theological Seminary and has done advanced clinical training in chaplaincy and pastoral counseling at the University of Kentucky Medical Center in Lexington, Kentucky, Children’s Medical Center and Parkland Hospital in Dallas, Texas and the Virginia Institute of Pastoral Care in Richmond, Virginia. He is a Certified Pastoral Counselor, an ACPE Practitioner, and a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. He is a Certified Facilitator of the Prepare-Enrich relationship assessment and skills-building program and served as a volunteer chaplain for over twenty years with the CJW Medical Center campuses in Richmond, Virginia. His avocational interests include playing the piano and drawing. He is very happily married to his wife Elizabeth Yeamans Simrell, a free-lance writer, who is also a Certified Facilitator for the Prepare-Enrich program. Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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